So whats up with men and internet porn? My husband has lied to me time and time again about going on to porn sites. With total disregard for my feelings and our marriage. It completely devastates me don't get me wrong I'm no prude we have dvd's. But this is different this is him sneaking around in the middle of the night,creating secret e-mail accounts and hiding it from me. I just don't know what to do. He says he's going to stop but I can't trust a word he says anymore. So what do I do? Do I be a total fool and believe him? Do I give up? We've been married for 13 years he is the love of my life but in my eyes he is cheating on me. He is cheating on me with a nameless group of sluts. I knew he would do it too, that is why I put off getting the internet for so long. And now that I've found out I can't help but think he's just going to be better at hiding it. My heart is broken into a million pieces............